They hate muslim garb, yet look what they deem as normal?
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Sunday, November 28, 2010
Political Bullies!
They hate muslim garb, yet look what they deem as normal?
Empowered
Like Mc Donalds "Im luvin it"!!!!
Im loving this article!!
The Hijab: Liberation or Oppression?
The Hijab. This is the outer cloak worn by a Muslim woman to cover her beauty; it includes her hair and her body.
For years there has been this common perception in the West that the Hijab symbolises a woman who is oppressed, a woman without a voice that needs liberating by removing her veil and giving her due rights.
However, perceptions are changing; the women in the Hijab now are quite often the women who previously frequented the clubs or pubs. Women regardless of colour, race or age are often reduced to a face or a couple of eyes. In a society where beauty is determined by what can be seen rather than what cannot, this must be an extremely difficult change to make and one that should be noticed.
The Hijab has been noticed, and it has made a significant impression upon the media. We’ve all seen on the news what a contentious issue the Hijab has become. France has become the Hijab focal-point of recent times. What people don’t realise is that France is not alone in their stance against the Hijab. In Turkey, the secular republic has banned headscarves in public institutions; in some German states, laws have been approved to stop teachers from wearing veils. Then we have Singapore; incidents in Egypt; Belgium; Russia, and even Denmark where the Hijab has become a major talking point and a source of controversy.
In a world where poverty is rampant, deaths are daily and the "war on terror" is ongoing it is ironic to see the Hijab dominating the front pages. Why is the Hijab sending ripples through so many governments? If someone wants to cover up then is it really a problem?
The general perception of Islam is not a positive one at present, especially through recent media attention with terms like "Islamophobia" being rampant throughout the front pages. Any form of openly displayed Islam must be "fundamental" or "extremist". Maybe the people who fear these terms; mainly the governments, are hoping that if they suppress Islam, then the "fanatics" will die away. If this is the strategy then it’s not very well thought out to say the least, oppression in any form only leads to a reaction; generally a rash one. Publicly the countries cite their various reasons for their stance against the Hijab; France’s whole argument is based on secularism:
President Jacques Chirac said this year: "Secularity is one of the republic's great achievements. It plays a crucial role in social harmony and national cohesion. We must not allow it to be weakened."
It’s extremely ironic that Chirac maintains that secularism upholds "social harmony" when its very ideals take away the basic rights of people to wear religious symbols. Secularism is outside of religion by its most basic principles. If secularism is not accepting religions, it is itself becoming a religion or an ideology, and a "fundamentalist" one. Secularists then judge religions on whether they are compatible with the secularist religion. People should have the right to express themselves with whatever symbols they are comfortable with.
Making these symbols something to hide can only fuel ignorance for generations to come. Will this lead to an increase in private schools which will form and regulate their own cultures behind closed doors? This is not the way to integrate the diversity of different faiths and cultures- which ironically the secularists argue is their whole reason for banning religious symbols. This will only teach our children the ‘us against them’ theory. This should not be the way for the future, yet somehow this is the road we are all unwittingly being led upon.
People innately have different perceptions, different ideas and ways. Diverse levels of intellect, foresight, education and environment are all among the factors which make us interestingly different. To put it simply; it's the way in which we have been created; as stated in the Qur'an:
"O mankind! We created you from a male and female, and made you into peoples and tribes so that you might come to know each other." (49:13)
Our differences should lead us to learn and experience , to absorb and to give some of our ownselves to others. The fact that a woman may want to cover herself should not lead to political and social dialectic in what is becoming an increasingly pragmatic world. Surprisingly, the move to wear the Hijab is not something which is done on a whim, imagine a change that will affect your every interaction with society, it will lead you to be steteotyped and quite often looked down upon; to cover yourself in such a fashion is not to be underestimated. Such a life altering change has to be driven by powerful cognition, by analysing and criticising until firm conviction reaches the mind and heart, firm knowledge that this is indeed the truthcoming from an All-Wise Creator.
Such certainty comes from studying verses like the following:
"O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies. That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And God is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful"
[al-Ahzaab 33:59]
Think about this verse; to be known as respectable, and not to be harassed and made into an object of desire. When a woman is not covered she is attractive to others simply because a woman is naturally an object of beauty. By wearing tight fitting clothing, make up and perfume, a woman accentuates her beauty, making her desirable. The whole reasoning behind the Hijab is that the woman does this for her husband only. To be attractive for the only man who should be attracted to her, the only man that has access to her beauty; both inner and outer.
A society where less and less is being worn each day can only lead to problems, the increasing rates of broken families, rape, divorce, sexually related diseases and so on, are causing society to fragment piece by piece over time. By covering up and guarding our modesty we can safeguard society, the dignity of our mothers, daughters, and sisters, and most importantly the sanctity of our own homes.
Ironically, stripping the women of their veil can only increase these problems, fuel dangerous ignorance and cause the opposite of what we human beings need to achieve; peaceful unity
The Hijab: Liberation or Oppression?
The Hijab: Liberation or Oppression?
The Hijab. This is the outer cloak worn by a Muslim woman to cover her beauty; it includes her hair and her body.
For years there has been this common perception in the West that the Hijab symbolises a woman who is oppressed, a woman without a voice that needs liberating by removing her veil and giving her due rights.
However, perceptions are changing; the women in the Hijab now are quite often the women who previously frequented the clubs or pubs. Women regardless of colour, race or age are often reduced to a face or a couple of eyes. In a society where beauty is determined by what can be seen rather than what cannot, this must be an extremely difficult change to make and one that should be noticed.
The Hijab has been noticed, and it has made a significant impression upon the media. We’ve all seen on the news what a contentious issue the Hijab has become. France has become the Hijab focal-point of recent times. What people don’t realise is that France is not alone in their stance against the Hijab. In Turkey, the secular republic has banned headscarves in public institutions; in some German states, laws have been approved to stop teachers from wearing veils. Then we have Singapore; incidents in Egypt; Belgium; Russia, and even Denmark where the Hijab has become a major talking point and a source of controversy.
In a world where poverty is rampant, deaths are daily and the "war on terror" is ongoing it is ironic to see the Hijab dominating the front pages. Why is the Hijab sending ripples through so many governments? If someone wants to cover up then is it really a problem?
The general perception of Islam is not a positive one at present, especially through recent media attention with terms like "Islamophobia" being rampant throughout the front pages. Any form of openly displayed Islam must be "fundamental" or "extremist". Maybe the people who fear these terms; mainly the governments, are hoping that if they suppress Islam, then the "fanatics" will die away. If this is the strategy then it’s not very well thought out to say the least, oppression in any form only leads to a reaction; generally a rash one. Publicly the countries cite their various reasons for their stance against the Hijab; France’s whole argument is based on secularism:
President Jacques Chirac said this year: "Secularity is one of the republic's great achievements. It plays a crucial role in social harmony and national cohesion. We must not allow it to be weakened."
It’s extremely ironic that Chirac maintains that secularism upholds "social harmony" when its very ideals take away the basic rights of people to wear religious symbols. Secularism is outside of religion by its most basic principles. If secularism is not accepting religions, it is itself becoming a religion or an ideology, and a "fundamentalist" one. Secularists then judge religions on whether they are compatible with the secularist religion. People should have the right to express themselves with whatever symbols they are comfortable with.
Making these symbols something to hide can only fuel ignorance for generations to come. Will this lead to an increase in private schools which will form and regulate their own cultures behind closed doors? This is not the way to integrate the diversity of different faiths and cultures- which ironically the secularists argue is their whole reason for banning religious symbols. This will only teach our children the ‘us against them’ theory. This should not be the way for the future, yet somehow this is the road we are all unwittingly being led upon.
People innately have different perceptions, different ideas and ways. Diverse levels of intellect, foresight, education and environment are all among the factors which make us interestingly different. To put it simply; it's the way in which we have been created; as stated in the Qur'an:
"O mankind! We created you from a male and female, and made you into peoples and tribes so that you might come to know each other." (49:13)
Our differences should lead us to learn and experience , to absorb and to give some of our ownselves to others. The fact that a woman may want to cover herself should not lead to political and social dialectic in what is becoming an increasingly pragmatic world. Surprisingly, the move to wear the Hijab is not something which is done on a whim, imagine a change that will affect your every interaction with society, it will lead you to be steteotyped and quite often looked down upon; to cover yourself in such a fashion is not to be underestimated. Such a life altering change has to be driven by powerful cognition, by analysing and criticising until firm conviction reaches the mind and heart, firm knowledge that this is indeed the truthcoming from an All-Wise Creator.
Such certainty comes from studying verses like the following:
"O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies. That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And God is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful"
[al-Ahzaab 33:59]
Think about this verse; to be known as respectable, and not to be harassed and made into an object of desire. When a woman is not covered she is attractive to others simply because a woman is naturally an object of beauty. By wearing tight fitting clothing, make up and perfume, a woman accentuates her beauty, making her desirable. The whole reasoning behind the Hijab is that the woman does this for her husband only. To be attractive for the only man who should be attracted to her, the only man that has access to her beauty; both inner and outer.
A society where less and less is being worn each day can only lead to problems, the increasing rates of broken families, rape, divorce, sexually related diseases and so on, are causing society to fragment piece by piece over time. By covering up and guarding our modesty we can safeguard society, the dignity of our mothers, daughters, and sisters, and most importantly the sanctity of our own homes.
Ironically, stripping the women of their veil can only increase these problems, fuel dangerous ignorance and cause the opposite of what we human beings need to achieve; peaceful unity
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
"Possesiveness" is part of marriage
Thanks to my fabulous friend i got this forwrad and thought id share.
From an old school Jew man.
From an old school Jew man.
"Possessiveness" is Part of Marriage
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
My wife recently asked me why I loved her. Instead of enumerating her good qualities, I answered simply and honestly: "Because you belong to me. "
At the risk of being politically incorrect, what many men seek in marriage is not great beauty, brains or sex, but the simple feeling of "possessing" a woman. In other words, what they seek is a degree of ownership or power. (Gasp!)
And I believe that, in their heart, many women have the complementary craving, to totally "belong" to their husband.
This is the key to intimacy, how two people become one. When a man wins a woman's love, she entrusts herself to him. And of course he aspires to be worthy of this responsibility.
Thus, a woman empowers her husband. Men and women were designed to complement each other, not to compete or fight. Most marriages break up due to competition for power.
When I reflect on my marriage, I get most satisfaction from the fact that my wife is "mine." She makes other women redundant. I no longer feel one of them holds the missing key. I have what I want. My wife helps me fulfill my goals. And she gets security and caring from this bond. The origin of this "possessiveness" is quite real and practical. Men need to "own the womb" to ensure their wives conceive their child and not another man's. Women want to rear an offspring that is the fruit of their love and commitment.Marriage is the exchange of feminine worldly power for masculine love and protection. Of course, women retain other forms of power, i.e. aesthetic, moral, emotional, intellectual etc.
We live in a toxic environment for marriage. The Illuminati (Masonic) central bankers, who control modern politics, education and kulture, continue to sabotage this exchange by constantly attacking woman's trust in men.
Men are irresponsible "abusers." Marriage is exploitative and oppressive. Women must be "independent." How can a person belong to another? Women must be "strong and independent." The more sex the better. Yadda, yadda, yadda.
Women! If you want to be independent, why get married?
Plain and simple, our "feminist" political leaders and educators are dupes and opportunists at best, impostors or traitors at worst. No honest government allows its men and women to be turned against each other.
SEX AND THE CITY
A reader in his early 20's writes that the TV show "Sex and the City" has molded girls of his generation.
This lesbian-tinged quotation is their watchword: "Maybe our girlfriends are our soul mates and guys are just people to have fun with."
Today's young woman "sees no value in a marriage or boyfriend-girlfriend relationship; rather she just gets random sex from guys and emotional/interpersonal stuff from friends," my correspondent writes.
"It's influenced all girls my age because they see some value to sleeping around-- like being a whore is some "strong women" empowering thing..."
Paradoxically the TV show was about four aging career women who are looking for marriage and/or family but find they are incompatible with men. The reason of course is that, due to their feminist (i.e. lesbian) brainwashing, they think men and women are identical. They are confused -- want to control a man and yet be possessed at the same time. They have lost the knack of feminine love (i.e. to surrender, trust and empower.)
Similarly feminism has also molded men to seek sex and extended adolescence instead of marriage. It has undermined and emasculated men so that often they can neither demand nor command a woman's trust.
Thus, the Sex in the City women end up in a series of unsatisfying sexual encounters with men who cannot love. They cannot commit and marry and, as a result, they suffer from arrested development. But all along they console each other in coffee shops and chic boutiques and pretend they have sacrificed marriage for their women's lib principles and their friendship is superior to what they really want.
When a woman chooses a man to love, she will defer to his superior judgment and power. This is the only kind of man she should marry. This is how a woman loves. Similarly, a man cannot love a woman who defies and challenges him constantly.
Sex is the sacred symbol of heterosexual possession, intimacy and exclusivity. The more men a woman belongs to sexually, the less likely she'll ever belong to any.
It's no coincidence that the Creator of "Sex and the City" is Darren Starr, a homosexual.
I have defined homosexuality as "failure to bond permanently with a member of the opposite sex, caused by confusion over sexual identity, resulting in arrested development." Heterosexuals are being re-engineered to fit this description.
ENLIGHTENED "OWNERSHIP"
You don't win a woman's trust by attempting to dominate or suffocate her. Rather you show her how you live, and want to live, and invite her to take a honored place in your life.
You respect her individuality. For example, you don't try to impose your ideas on her. Naturally you will choose someone who has an affinity with you. But you are not looking for your clone. You should value her perspective and enjoy the differences.
I get letters from men who complain that their women can't buy into the "Conspiracy." So what? Do you really want the madness mirrored back to you? If what we're saying is true, it will become apparent to everyone eventually. People in possession of the truth do not have to impose it.
Another example. I can't imagine a man ever insisting on having sex with his wife when she's not in the mood. There's no faster way to turn a woman off a man, and off sex. (Of course if she never wants sex, the marriage is broken.)
On the other hand, a man won't let his wife engage in activities that endanger her or their marriage.
CONCLUSION
When a man loves a woman, he wants her to be happy. He wants her t o want to be his.
I'm not saying all marriages have to be this way. I'm not saying my marriage is perfect. The proof of the pudding is in the eating. Whatever works for you is best for you.
I am saying there is a place for "possession" in many marriages. If I am right, the quality men should seek is feminine receptivity: i.e. the ability to love, trust, belong.
My wife recently asked me why I loved her. Instead of enumerating her good qualities, I answered simply and honestly: "Because you belong to me. "
At the risk of being politically incorrect, what many men seek in marriage is not great beauty, brains or sex, but the simple feeling of "possessing" a woman. In other words, what they seek is a degree of ownership or power. (Gasp!)
And I believe that, in their heart, many women have the complementary craving, to totally "belong" to their husband.
This is the key to intimacy, how two people become one. When a man wins a woman's love, she entrusts herself to him. And of course he aspires to be worthy of this responsibility.
Thus, a woman empowers her husband. Men and women were designed to complement each other, not to compete or fight. Most marriages break up due to competition for power.
When I reflect on my marriage, I get most satisfaction from the fact that my wife is "mine." She makes other women redundant. I no longer feel one of them holds the missing key. I have what I want. My wife helps me fulfill my goals. And she gets security and caring from this bond. The origin of this "possessiveness" is quite real and practical. Men need to "own the womb" to ensure their wives conceive their child and not another man's. Women want to rear an offspring that is the fruit of their love and commitment.Marriage is the exchange of feminine worldly power for masculine love and protection. Of course, women retain other forms of power, i.e. aesthetic, moral, emotional, intellectual etc.
We live in a toxic environment for marriage. The Illuminati (Masonic) central bankers, who control modern politics, education and kulture, continue to sabotage this exchange by constantly attacking woman's trust in men.
Men are irresponsible "abusers." Marriage is exploitative and oppressive. Women must be "independent." How can a person belong to another? Women must be "strong and independent." The more sex the better. Yadda, yadda, yadda.
Women! If you want to be independent, why get married?
Plain and simple, our "feminist" political leaders and educators are dupes and opportunists at best, impostors or traitors at worst. No honest government allows its men and women to be turned against each other.
SEX AND THE CITY
A reader in his early 20's writes that the TV show "Sex and the City" has molded girls of his generation.
This lesbian-tinged quotation is their watchword: "Maybe our girlfriends are our soul mates and guys are just people to have fun with."
Today's young woman "sees no value in a marriage or boyfriend-girlfriend relationship; rather she just gets random sex from guys and emotional/interpersonal stuff from friends," my correspondent writes.
"It's influenced all girls my age because they see some value to sleeping around-- like being a whore is some "strong women" empowering thing..."
Paradoxically the TV show was about four aging career women who are looking for marriage and/or family but find they are incompatible with men. The reason of course is that, due to their feminist (i.e. lesbian) brainwashing, they think men and women are identical. They are confused -- want to control a man and yet be possessed at the same time. They have lost the knack of feminine love (i.e. to surrender, trust and empower.)
Similarly feminism has also molded men to seek sex and extended adolescence instead of marriage. It has undermined and emasculated men so that often they can neither demand nor command a woman's trust.
Thus, the Sex in the City women end up in a series of unsatisfying sexual encounters with men who cannot love. They cannot commit and marry and, as a result, they suffer from arrested development. But all along they console each other in coffee shops and chic boutiques and pretend they have sacrificed marriage for their women's lib principles and their friendship is superior to what they really want.
When a woman chooses a man to love, she will defer to his superior judgment and power. This is the only kind of man she should marry. This is how a woman loves. Similarly, a man cannot love a woman who defies and challenges him constantly.
Sex is the sacred symbol of heterosexual possession, intimacy and exclusivity. The more men a woman belongs to sexually, the less likely she'll ever belong to any.
It's no coincidence that the Creator of "Sex and the City" is Darren Starr, a homosexual.
I have defined homosexuality as "failure to bond permanently with a member of the opposite sex, caused by confusion over sexual identity, resulting in arrested development." Heterosexuals are being re-engineered to fit this description.
ENLIGHTENED "OWNERSHIP"
You don't win a woman's trust by attempting to dominate or suffocate her. Rather you show her how you live, and want to live, and invite her to take a honored place in your life.
You respect her individuality. For example, you don't try to impose your ideas on her. Naturally you will choose someone who has an affinity with you. But you are not looking for your clone. You should value her perspective and enjoy the differences.
I get letters from men who complain that their women can't buy into the "Conspiracy." So what? Do you really want the madness mirrored back to you? If what we're saying is true, it will become apparent to everyone eventually. People in possession of the truth do not have to impose it.
Another example. I can't imagine a man ever insisting on having sex with his wife when she's not in the mood. There's no faster way to turn a woman off a man, and off sex. (Of course if she never wants sex, the marriage is broken.)
On the other hand, a man won't let his wife engage in activities that endanger her or their marriage.
CONCLUSION
When a man loves a woman, he wants her to be happy. He wants her t o want to be his.
I'm not saying all marriages have to be this way. I'm not saying my marriage is perfect. The proof of the pudding is in the eating. Whatever works for you is best for you.
I am saying there is a place for "possession" in many marriages. If I am right, the quality men should seek is feminine receptivity: i.e. the ability to love, trust, belong.
S
A mothers advice to her daugter
Beautiful advice.
‘Abd al-Malik (RA) said: “When ‘Awf ibn Muhallim al-Shaybani, one of the most highly respected leaders of the Arab nobility during the jahiliyyah, married his daughter Umm Iyas to al-Harith ibn ‘Amr al-Kindi, she was made ready to be taken to the groom, then her mother, Umamah came into her, to advise her and said:
‘O my daughter, if it were deemed unnecessary to give you this advice because of good manners and noble descent, then it would have been unnecessary for you, because you posses these qualities, but it will serve as a reminder to those who are forgetful, and will help those who are wise.
‘O my daughter, if a woman were able to do without a husband by virtue of her father’s wealth and her need for her father, then you of all people would be most able to do without a husband, but women were created for men just as men were created for them.
‘O my daughter, you are about to leave the home in which you grew up, where you first learned to walk, to go to a place you do not know, to a companion to whom you are unfamiliar. By marrying you, he has become a master over you, so be like a servant to him, and he will become like a servant to you.
‘Take from me ten qualities, which will be a provision and a reminder for you.
‘The first and second of them are: be content in his company, and listen to and obey him, for contentment brings peace of mind, and listening to and obeying one’s husband pleases Allah.
‘The third and fourth of them are: make sure that you smell good and look good; he should not see anything ugly in you, and he should not smell anything but a pleasant smell from you. Kohl is the best kind of beautification to be found, and water is better than the rarest perfume.
‘The fifth and sixth of them are: prepare his food on time, and keep quiet when he is asleep, for raging hunger is like a burning flame, and disturbing his sleep will make him angry.
‘The seventh and eighth of them are: take care of his servants (or employees) and children, and take care of his wealth, for taking care of his wealth shows that you appreciate him, and taking care of his children and servants shows good management.
‘The ninth and tenth of them are: never disclose any of his secrets, and never disobey any of his orders, for if you disclose any of his secrets you will never feel safe from his possible betrayal, and if you disobey him, his heart will be filled with hatred towards you.
‘Be careful, O my daughter, of showing joy in front of him when he is upset, and do not show sorrow in front of him when he is happy, because the former shows a lack of judgment whilst the latter will make him unhappy.
‘Show him as much honor and respect as you can, and agree with him as much as you can, so that he will enjoy your companionship and conversation.
‘Know, O my daughter, that you will not achieve what you would like to until you put his pleasure before your own, and his wishes before yours, in whatever you like and dislike. And may Allah choose what is best for you and protect you.”
Jamharah Khutah al-‘Arab, 1/145
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Whats Really Hood?
Asalamu Alaikum
So I find it rather ironic that me and my fellow muslimahs, love getting all dolled up,( im talking new clothes, trip to the hair dressers, fresh henna, the whole 9 yards) all to go to these all female gatherings. Yet when you ask many what they wear at home for their husbands, they are at home wearing clothes thats not even cool for laundry day!
I mean poor hubby cant even go take out the trash without some kufr women dressed half naked, smelling like something fresh out of Holt Renfrew and hair done up looking promising- (yall know a lot of them are your typical easy A's)- and yet has to come home to you looking like your apart of the sofa. Dressed all bummed out, saving your good wear for these all female gatherings!
Does anyone see the irony in that? I repeat ALL FEMALE GATHERINGS
we are dressing up for, yet are hubbys are coming home to us looking like Gorilla warfare. We wont even touch the second wife subject YET!
Tell me whats wrong with this picture. L me just say that considering i love love love my hubby I try to stay fresh all day everyday. Soap is my best friend lolol. Eye liner in the morning if I have too, good perfume if im home all day, and underneath the robe theirs always something promising inshaallah. Only excuse for looking like road kill is if that monthly friend has arrived and even than still gotta look fresh.
SMH we need to get it together. We gotta look like something out of a magazine and make him happy to come home to us. Not that he gets the pass to look sloppy.
To the mothers: - mashaallah- I know you have children and its a lot of work but still no excuse to loose yourself and start looking like youve had 50. Be that women that he met initially not the slob thats so easy for us to turn into. Just sayin
Single ladies: inshaallah may Allah bless you with a wonderful husband ameen. However until than inshaallah prepare and make sure your wardrobe is Hot and that you could do whatever it is that will get and keep your hubby happy inshaallah. Just stay away from my hubby cuz i know some of yall are thirsty and ready to be seconds. lol im joking.
May Allah bless us all and accept our duaa's for whatever it is we ask for that is good for us Ameen
T
So I find it rather ironic that me and my fellow muslimahs, love getting all dolled up,( im talking new clothes, trip to the hair dressers, fresh henna, the whole 9 yards) all to go to these all female gatherings. Yet when you ask many what they wear at home for their husbands, they are at home wearing clothes thats not even cool for laundry day!
I mean poor hubby cant even go take out the trash without some kufr women dressed half naked, smelling like something fresh out of Holt Renfrew and hair done up looking promising- (yall know a lot of them are your typical easy A's)- and yet has to come home to you looking like your apart of the sofa. Dressed all bummed out, saving your good wear for these all female gatherings!
Does anyone see the irony in that? I repeat ALL FEMALE GATHERINGS
we are dressing up for, yet are hubbys are coming home to us looking like Gorilla warfare. We wont even touch the second wife subject YET!
Tell me whats wrong with this picture. L me just say that considering i love love love my hubby I try to stay fresh all day everyday. Soap is my best friend lolol. Eye liner in the morning if I have too, good perfume if im home all day, and underneath the robe theirs always something promising inshaallah. Only excuse for looking like road kill is if that monthly friend has arrived and even than still gotta look fresh.
SMH we need to get it together. We gotta look like something out of a magazine and make him happy to come home to us. Not that he gets the pass to look sloppy.
To the mothers: - mashaallah- I know you have children and its a lot of work but still no excuse to loose yourself and start looking like youve had 50. Be that women that he met initially not the slob thats so easy for us to turn into. Just sayin
Single ladies: inshaallah may Allah bless you with a wonderful husband ameen. However until than inshaallah prepare and make sure your wardrobe is Hot and that you could do whatever it is that will get and keep your hubby happy inshaallah. Just stay away from my hubby cuz i know some of yall are thirsty and ready to be seconds. lol im joking.
May Allah bless us all and accept our duaa's for whatever it is we ask for that is good for us Ameen
T
Yes we are human people!
Boy is it ever awkward going into a lingerie store to buy goodies! Youd think just because I wear a hijab and modest clothing people assume that we go to sleep wearing garbage bags or something. Never would I have thought a trip to a lingerie store would be so awkward!!! Hate to be judgemental but id like to tell some ignorant people to take a hike. Is it ever hard to keep my composure, id really like to cuss out some of the ladies who stare wayyyy past the 30 second stare mark, that is alotted most ppl.
SMH I only wear a hijab I could imagine what Niqabis go through!
Anyway the lingerie stores do nothing for me these days. Online seems to have way more of a variety! Thank goodness for paypal and prepaid master cards
Im still waiting for a Muslimah to come out with a Hot lingerie Line (No granny pannies please) until than Im stuck shopping alongside or even supporting these ignoramus people.
If anyone knows of any sisters who have a Hot lingerie line out please hit me up. until than looks like ill be shopping on hotdreamslingerie.com (its a kufr website so Not Safe for The Eyes) or Fredericks.com
for a lonnnng time!!!
My taste is very bold but im married so im allowed to be!!
Bra you Later
T
SMH I only wear a hijab I could imagine what Niqabis go through!
Anyway the lingerie stores do nothing for me these days. Online seems to have way more of a variety! Thank goodness for paypal and prepaid master cards
Im still waiting for a Muslimah to come out with a Hot lingerie Line (No granny pannies please) until than Im stuck shopping alongside or even supporting these ignoramus people.
If anyone knows of any sisters who have a Hot lingerie line out please hit me up. until than looks like ill be shopping on hotdreamslingerie.com (its a kufr website so Not Safe for The Eyes) or Fredericks.com
for a lonnnng time!!!
My taste is very bold but im married so im allowed to be!!
Bra you Later
T
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